PART 8 – The Petition With My Name on It Had Never Been Discussed With Me, and Roman’s Missing Affidavit Became the Most Important Paper in the House

I placed the petition template in a separate envelope and wrote the date across the front. Then I put it in the locked drawer beside Walter's notes. It was a small action, but it made me feel less helpless. If the papers were to tell the story of what had happened, I wanted them preserved exactly as I had found them.

Bennett had been careful to explain that a draft petition was not proof of a completed legal action. I understood that distinction. I also understood that someone had prepared a document suggesting that I might need a guardian without first discussing the matter with me.

That fact alone deserved an answer.

Roman telephoned shortly after lunch.

“I found the affidavit,” he said. “It was in a folder with the copies I made for Aunt Denise.”

“Have you read it?”

“Yes. All of it this time.”

His voice sounded strained.

“What does it say?”

“It says I believe you have become unable to manage your financial affairs independently and that you need assistance from a family member. It also says I've observed signs of confusion and memory problems.”

I closed my eyes.

“Have you observed those things?”

“No.”

“Then why does it say that?”

“Because Denise told me it was standard wording. She said the lawyer needed a statement explaining why the family was concerned. I thought it meant I was agreeing that you might need help with paperwork, not that I was saying you couldn't make decisions.”

“Did you sign it in front of a notary?”

“No. I signed it at her house. She said she would arrange whatever else was needed.”

I felt a chill move through me.

“Does it have a date?”

“Yes.”

“Is it the same date as the power-of-attorney document?”

“No. It's a few days earlier.”

I took a notebook from the kitchen drawer and wrote down the date. It was during the period when Walter had been receiving hospice care and I had been spending most of my time at his bedside.

“Bring the original to Bennett,” I said. “Don't give it to anyone else.”

“I will.”

He hesitated.

“Mom, there's something else. I think Denise has already spoken to someone about a guardianship application.”

I sat down.

“What makes you think that?”

“Last week, before Dad died, she asked whether I would be willing to help with some forms if the family decided you needed more support. She didn't use the word petition then. She said it would be a way to make sure your bills were paid and that you wouldn't be pressured by strangers.”

“Did she mention a lawyer?”

“She said she had spoken to someone about the process. I didn't ask who.”

I wrote that down too.

“Roman, I need you to tell Bennett exactly what you just told me. Don't leave anything out because you're afraid it will make you look bad.”

“I know.”

“Do you?”

He was silent for a moment.

“I signed something I shouldn't have signed. I thought I was helping you, but I didn't make sure I understood what I was agreeing to. I can't change that. I can tell the truth now.”

It was the first time since the will reading that Roman sounded certain about anything.

“That's what I need from you,” I said.

He promised to deliver the affidavit that afternoon. Before hanging up, he asked whether I wanted him to come by and sit with me.

“Not today,” I replied. “I have some things to think through.”

I spent the next hour reviewing the notes I had made from Walter's papers. I created a list of questions for Bennett: the property's title history, the incomplete bank statements, the trust's assets, the date of Roman's affidavit, and whether any application concerning my capacity had actually been filed.

I had never been a woman who enjoyed legal documents. When Walter handled our affairs, I trusted him because he had always shown me the bills when I asked and explained the decisions that affected our household. I had not demanded to read every clause of every agreement because I believed our marriage was a partnership, not a business arrangement.

Now I wished I had paid closer attention to the details.

The realization did not mean I blamed myself for what Denise might have done. It meant I understood that trust should never require a person to surrender the ability to ask questions.

At three o'clock, Roman arrived with the affidavit in a plain envelope. He did not sit down immediately. Instead, he placed it on the table and stood with both hands resting on the back of a chair.

“I read every word,” he said. “I don't agree with it.”

“Then you need to tell Bennett that.”

“I will.”

He finally sat.

“I keep thinking about Dad. He must have known Denise was asking questions about the accounts. He must have known she was preparing something.”

“Perhaps he suspected it. We don't know exactly what he knew.”

“Why didn't he stop her?”

I looked at Walter's empty chair.

“Maybe he was trying to gather enough information before confronting her. Maybe he believed he could resolve it without frightening everyone. Maybe he made a mistake.”

Roman's face tightened. “I wish he had told me.”

“So do I.”

For a while, we sat in silence. Then Roman asked whether he could read the letter Walter had left me.

I considered the request. It was personal, and Walter had written it for me. But Roman was also part of the family affected by the will, the trust, and the questions surrounding the financial records. I decided to show him the letter about the trust, not the private letter in which Walter had asked me to remember Denise's questions.

He read it carefully.

When he reached the sentence about silence becoming another kind of burden, he stopped and rubbed his eyes.

“Dad knew he had handled this badly,” he murmured.

“I think he did.”

“He should have trusted you.”

“Yes,” I said. “He should have.”

Roman folded the letter and returned it to me. “I don't know how to make up for what I signed.”

“Start by correcting the record. Then let the facts decide what happens next.”

He nodded.

We drove together to Bennett's office, carrying the affidavit and the copies of the petition template. Bennett was still working when we arrived. He asked Roman to describe the circumstances under which he had signed the statement, then examined the wording carefully.

“Roman, I need to be precise about something,” he said. “You are not being asked to protect your aunt or your mother. You are being asked to tell the truth about what you personally observed and what you were told.”

“I understand.”

“Did you ever see Eleanor unable to recognize family members, understand financial decisions, or manage ordinary household affairs?”

“No.”

“Did you ever witness her being confused about the ownership of her home or the existence of her bank accounts?”

“No. She asked questions when she didn't know something, but she always understood what we discussed.”

“Did you personally believe she needed a guardian?”

Roman swallowed. “No. I signed the affidavit because Denise told me it was necessary to help Mom. I didn't understand that it claimed I had observed problems I hadn't actually seen.”

Bennett wrote down his answers.

“Thank you. We will need a formal statement clarifying the circumstances of the original affidavit. Do not attempt to amend the document yourself. We should preserve it and prepare an accurate account of what happened.”

He turned to me.

“Eleanor, I also want to make clear that the draft petition does not establish that a court proceeding has begun. I will check the relevant records and determine whether anything has been filed.”

“How long will that take?”

“I hope to know more within a few days. If an application has been submitted, we will need to respond through the appropriate legal process.”

I nodded. I did not like waiting, but I was learning that a careful answer was more useful than a quick one.

Bennett then reviewed the property documents I had brought from Walter's desk. He compared the dates, noted the references to an additional agreement, and asked his assistant to request certified copies of the current title and the earlier records.

“The trust may be relevant to the overall picture,” he said, “but we cannot assume it resolves the property question until we know precisely what was transferred and when. We need to establish whether Walter's signature was properly obtained and whether the documents reflect his intentions.”

Roman looked troubled.

“Are you saying someone forged Dad's signature?”

“No,” Bennett replied. “I am saying that we must verify the documents before reaching any conclusion. A signature can appear on a page for several reasons, and the legal effect depends on the complete record.”

I appreciated his caution. It prevented my fear from becoming an accusation before we had evidence.

Before we left, Bennett asked Roman whether he had any further correspondence from Denise concerning the affidavit or the financial summary.

Roman searched his telephone and found several messages. One said that he should not worry about the wording because the document was only intended to show that the family was concerned. Another asked him to confirm that he had given Denise the account statements. A third mentioned arranging a meeting to discuss “the next steps” after Walter's funeral.

Bennett asked him to preserve the messages and send copies to the office.

When he finished, he looked at me.

“I want you to understand something, Eleanor. The fact that a relative offers help does not mean the help is improper. But if someone seeks legal authority over your affairs, the request must be based on accurate information and handled through the proper process. You have the right to understand what is being proposed and to respond.”

I felt my shoulders loosen slightly.

“Thank you.”

We left the office together. Roman drove me home, and neither of us spoke much during the journey. At the house, he carried my folder inside and placed it on the table.

“Mom,” he said, “I want you to know that I won't sign anything else without reading it. And I won't let anyone use my name to say something I don't believe.”

I looked at my youngest son.

“That is all I can ask of you.”

After he left, I checked my telephone. Denise had sent a message asking whether Bennett had explained the trust and whether I was willing to meet with her privately.

I did not reply.

Instead, I called Janet and Charlie and told them what we had discovered about the affidavit and the draft petition. Janet was shocked. Charlie became angry, insisting that Denise should be confronted immediately. I reminded them that Bennett was verifying whether any formal action had been taken and that we needed to avoid turning uncertainty into a family war.

“Mom,” Charlie said, “she was trying to get control of your money.”

“We know she asked me to sign a power of attorney. We know she brought a document with a date that needs explaining. We know Roman signed an affidavit he now says does not accurately reflect what he observed. We do not yet know everything she intended or whether a petition was filed.”

“But what more do you need?”

“The truth.”

The answer quieted him.

That evening, I sat in the study with Walter's letter beside me. I thought about the trust, the will, the locked drawer, and the papers that had gathered dust while I believed our financial life was settled.

I had spent sixty-nine years loving Walter. I did not want the last chapter of our marriage to become a list of suspicions and grievances. But neither could I let affection prevent me from protecting myself.

Walter had made a plan, and the plan had left me with questions he could no longer answer.

Denise had made her own arrangements, and those arrangements now required scrutiny.

Roman had made a mistake, and he was beginning to correct it.

For the first time since the will reading, I could see a path forward. It would not be quick, and it would not be painless, but it would be based on documents, facts, and my own decisions rather than on someone else's assurances.

I turned off the desk lamp and locked the drawer.

Tomorrow, Bennett would check the court records.

And if Denise had already taken the next step, I would finally know what we were facing.


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