PART 19 – I Had No Easy Way Back to the Life We Had Before, and I Finally Accepted That I Shouldn’t Pretend Otherwise

By then, I had begun thinking about practical arrangements.

I didn't know how long Lily would need medical care.

I didn't know what the investigation would establish.

I didn't know what would happen with our house.

But I understood that I needed to be prepared.

I asked the appropriate hospital professional what arrangements would be necessary before Lily and I could leave.

She explained that the safety plan would need to be considered with the relevant professionals.

I listened carefully.

I didn't want to make assumptions.

I also didn't want to agree to anything simply because it was convenient.

I thought about my mother.

She had been the reason I left home that first afternoon Daniel stayed with Lily.

I wondered whether I should tell her what was happening.

I wanted her support.

But I needed to be careful about sharing information while the evaluation and safeguarding process continued.

I decided to wait until I had guidance about what was appropriate to discuss.

Lily was coloring again.

She had chosen the blue crayon.

The same blue she had used for the house in her first drawing.

I sat beside her.

She showed me the picture.

I told her I liked it.

She placed the crayon down.

Then she leaned against my arm.

I kissed her forehead.

I thought about my old job.

The shipping company.

The operations work.

The people I had worked with.

I wondered whether I could return to that kind of work eventually.

I didn't know.

But I knew I could begin rebuilding the parts of my life I had put aside.

I had spent three years believing that Daniel's income meant I didn't need to worry about anything.

Now I understood that financial comfort and personal safety were separate things.

I would have to make careful decisions.

I would have to ask for help.

I would have to learn what options were available.

None of that was easy.

But I could do it.

A nurse came in to check on Lily.

She spoke softly and explained everything before beginning.

Lily remained calm.

I watched her closely.

When the nurse finished, Lily reached for her rabbit.

I handed it to her.

She hugged it.

I smiled.

That small moment mattered.

We were still here.

We were still together.

And I wasn't going to rush her back into a situation that frightened her.

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