The following days were different.
Not easier.
Different.
Jeremy continued speaking.
Not constantly.
Not in long conversations.
Sometimes he said only a few words.
Sometimes he answered questions with a nod.
But his voice was there.
And I listened whenever he used it.
I didn't make a celebration out of every sentence.
I didn't ask him to repeat words for relatives.
I didn't tell him how wonderful it was every time he spoke.
I wanted him to understand that speaking was his choice.
Not another responsibility.
One afternoon, I found him sitting near the living room window.
The photograph of Janice was on the table.
He was looking at it.
I sat beside him.
"Would you like to look through the album again?"
He nodded.
I brought it over.
We opened it to the first pages.
The twins as babies.
Their first birthdays.
Their little hands covered in cake.
Jeremy smiled at one picture.
I smiled too.
Then he turned to the photographs from when they were five.
His smile disappeared.
I noticed.
I didn't ask why.
He touched the edge of a picture.
"That was before."
I nodded.
"Before the lake?"
He nodded again.
I placed the album on the table.
He looked at me.
"Mom, I remember being with her."
"I know."
He swallowed.
Then he spoke more clearly.
"I remember Dad telling me not to talk about it."
I felt my throat tighten.
"Did you understand why?"
He shook his head.
I waited.
He looked toward the hallway.
Then back at me.
"I was little."
I nodded.
"Yes, sweetheart."
He looked down.
"I was scared."
I reached for his hand.
"I understand."
He shook his head again.
I realized he wasn't asking me to understand the general feeling.
He wanted me to know something specific.
But I didn't want to guess.
So I waited.
He took a breath.
Then he said:
"I didn't know what to do."
I pulled him close.
"You don't have to carry everything alone."
He rested his head against my shoulder.
I thought about the funeral.
The little dark suit.
His hand inside mine.
I had spent years remembering how quiet he had been that day.
Now I wondered whether he had already decided that speaking was dangerous.
I couldn't know for certain.
I didn't want to put words into his memories.
I only knew what he was telling me now.
That afternoon, my husband came home.
He found us sitting together.
He looked at the album.
Then at Jeremy.
"Can I sit?"
Jeremy didn't answer immediately.
He glanced at me.
I gave him a small nod.
He finally nodded toward the empty chair.
My husband sat down.
For several minutes, nobody spoke.
Then he looked at his son.
"I've wanted to talk to you."
Jeremy looked at him.
My husband continued.
"I know things have been difficult between us."
Jeremy didn't respond.
"I know you have questions."
My husband looked down at his hands.
I waited for him to continue.
But he stopped.
Jeremy finally spoke.
"I have questions."
My husband nodded.
"That's fair."
Jeremy looked toward Janice's photograph.
Then back at his father.
"Why?"
My husband looked at him.
"Why what?"
Jeremy swallowed.
"Why didn't you tell Mom?"
My husband went pale.
I felt my fingers go cold.
That was the question I had been asking too.
He looked toward me.
I didn't rescue him.
I didn't explain what he meant.
I simply waited.
My husband finally said:
"I thought I was doing the right thing."
Jeremy looked down.
I felt something heavy settle inside me.
Because doing the right thing was not the same as telling the truth.
And I was beginning to understand that our family needed more than another promise.
We needed honesty.
Click here to continue reading: PART 20: Eight Years After the Funeral, My Son’s Voice Finally Returned, but the Truth and the Cost of Silence Remained With Us
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