PART 14 – Blythe Wanted to Talk About Her Future, but I Needed Her to Understand That My Home Was Not Already Part of It

Blythe called the following afternoon.

I was sitting at the kitchen table with my attorney's papers beside me.

I answered and waited for her to speak.

"Thank you for taking my call."

Her voice sounded careful.

I couldn't tell whether she was angry or embarrassed.

Perhaps she was both.

I told her I was listening.

She began by explaining how difficult the situation had become.

She said she and Cullen had planned their return around moving into the beach house.

They had made arrangements.

They had expected everything to be ready.

I listened without interrupting.

When she finished, I asked her a simple question.

"Did either of you ask me whether you could move in?"

There was a pause.

"We thought the house was going to be ours."

"Eventually, perhaps. But did you ask me about moving in on September 26?"

She didn't answer immediately.

Then she said they had believed the arrangements were complete.

I remembered Miles's call.

I remembered Cullen saying he had seen the deed.

I also remembered the envelope with the tape across its flap.

I wanted to know what Blythe believed she had seen.

"Did Cullen show you a signed document?"

She said he had told her the paperwork was done.

That wasn't quite the same answer.

I asked whether she had personally seen a completed transfer.

She hesitated.

"No, not personally."

I sat back in my chair.

The distinction mattered.

Blythe had made plans based on what Cullen told her.

Cullen had told Miles the paperwork was finished.

Laurelai had organized a celebration around the expectation that I would hand over the keys.

Yet nobody had been able to show me a document that I had knowingly signed to transfer the house.

I didn't accuse Blythe of lying.

I didn't know what she had been told in private.

But I needed her to understand the problem.

"You may have believed the house was going to be yours," I said. "That doesn't mean you had permission to move in."

She sighed.

"I understand why you're upset."

I wondered whether she really did.

I wasn't upset only because they had made assumptions.

I was upset because they had treated those assumptions as more important than asking me.

I told her that I had been planning to discuss the future with Cullen.

I had asked my attorney to prepare a document.

I had also intended to share a handwritten note Nile had left behind.

I had hoped the conversation would happen at a meaningful time.

But I had not promised that the house would be transferred on a particular date.

Blythe became quiet.

"I didn't know about the note."

I believed her.

At least, I had no reason to assume otherwise.

I explained that the house meant more to me than its current value.

Nile and I had bought it after a terrible hurricane.

We had spent six summers restoring it.

We had repaired damaged sections, worked on the porch, and argued over small things like the color of the front door.

The blue paint had been Nile's choice.

I told her that the house carried memories I could not replace.

Blythe said she understood that it was important to me.

Then she returned to the practical problem.

They had already given up their apartment.

I felt sorry for her.

I could imagine how frightening it would be to return from a honeymoon without knowing where to stay.

But I hadn't made that decision for them.

I told her I was sorry they were facing difficulties.

I also told her I couldn't solve them by handing over a property I had not agreed to give away.

She became upset.

"We weren't trying to take anything from you."

I held the phone more tightly.

"Then you should have asked me."

There was silence.

I regretted how painful the conversation had become.

But I did not regret asking the question.

We spoke for several more minutes.

Blythe said she wanted to avoid a permanent family argument.

I told her I wanted that too.

I said I would discuss future arrangements when I was ready and after I understood the legal position.

She agreed, although I could hear that she wasn't satisfied.

When the call ended, I remained at the table.

I looked at the handwritten note's place in my plans.

I had not yet given Cullen the document or explained the note to him.

I still hoped I could do that one day.

But I understood now that the conversation would have to begin with something less sentimental.

Respect.

Permission.

The right to make my own decisions.

I couldn't give Cullen a future arrangement simply because he had already built his expectations around it.

And I couldn't let Blythe's difficult circumstances make me forget that.

That evening, I walked through the house and checked the locks.

I touched the blue paint on the front door.

Then I went inside and closed it behind me.

The door had been built to welcome people.

It had never been meant to erase the difference between being invited in and assuming you belonged there.

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