PART 2 – I Sat at Our Old Kitchen Table and Decided to Ask Three Children the Same Difficult Question

A week after the funeral, I found myself sitting at the kitchen table with Walt's reading glasses in my hands.

I had picked them up from beside his chair.

I wasn't sure why I had carried them into the kitchen.

Perhaps I wanted something familiar to hold.

Perhaps I simply couldn't bear to put them back.

The morning light fell across the table where we had eaten breakfast for years.

There was a small scratch near the edge from when Michael had dropped a toy truck there as a boy.

Walt had never bothered to repair it.

He said a table was meant to be used, not admired.

I ran my thumb across the scratch.

Then I thought about my children.

I had three of them.

Three people I had carried, fed, worried over, and watched grow into adults.

I knew which foods they hated as children.

I knew how each one sounded when they were sick.

I remembered the nights I had stayed awake waiting for them to come home safely.

I had believed those memories meant we would always be there for one another.

But I didn't know what they would do if I had nothing left to offer them.

That question had been troubling me since the funeral.

So I decided to ask.

Not about money.

Not about their father's business.

Not about what they might inherit.

I would tell them I had lost everything.

I would tell them the medical bills had swallowed our savings and that the house was being taken away.

I would tell them I had nowhere to go.

It was a terrible thing to say to my own children.

I knew that before I made the first call.

I also knew I could stop at any moment.

I could put down the phone and return to pretending I understood the people I had raised.

Instead, I opened my contacts.

Michael's name appeared first.

He was my oldest.

He had done well for himself and had a position that people often described with admiration.

He and Jenna lived in a large five-bedroom house.

I had visited enough times to know there was more space than they needed.

Still, I tried not to judge.

Their home was their own, and they had every right to arrange it as they wished.

I pressed his number.

It rang several times.

When he finally answered, I heard faint voices in the background.

"Hi, Mom. Everything okay?"

I stared at Walt's glasses.

"No, Michael. Not really."

He stopped talking.

I told him that the bills from his father's illness had become too much.

I said the money was gone.

I said the bank was taking the house.

Then I told him I didn't know where I was going to live.

I had rehearsed the words, but they sounded worse when spoken aloud.

For several seconds, Michael said nothing.

I waited for him to ask me to come over.

I waited for him to tell me that he and Jenna would work something out.

I waited for the simplest question a frightened mother could hope to hear.

When I would need him.

Instead, he sighed.

"Mom, that's awful."

I closed my eyes.

"I didn't know who else to call."

"I understand. I do."

There was another pause.

"But things are difficult here right now."

I looked toward the empty living room.

"What do you mean?"

"Jenna's mother is supposed to visit in the spring, and the spare room isn't really available anymore. Jenna uses it as an office."

I knew the room he meant.

It had a bed, a wardrobe, and a wide window overlooking the garden.

There was room for a desk.

There was room for a chair.

There was room for a person who needed somewhere safe to sleep.

But Michael had already decided there was no room for me.

He didn't say that directly.

He didn't need to.

"I could look into other options," I said quietly.

"That might be best for now."

His voice became more practical, as if we were discussing a problem at work.

"I'll send you some information about senior housing. There are places that help people in your situation."

I held the glasses tighter.

"All right."

"I'll email you some links."

He sounded relieved that we had reached a solution.

We said goodbye.

I remained at the table long after the call ended.

I could still hear the refrigerator humming.

The clock above the doorway ticked steadily.

Nothing in the house had changed.

But something inside me had.

An hour later, I checked my email.

Michael had sent three links.

There was no message asking whether I had eaten.

No suggestion that I come over for a few nights while I worked things out.

Just three websites.

I stared at them until the screen dimmed.

Then I closed the laptop.

I wanted to tell myself he hadn't understood how desperate I sounded.

I wanted to believe he would call back after thinking it through.

But the truth was simpler.

He had heard me.

He had understood that his mother needed help.

And he had sent me somewhere else.

I returned Walt's glasses to the kitchen table.

I wasn't finished making my calls.

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