PART 22 – The Hospital Had Become the Place Where I Finally Stopped Making Excuses for the Silence That Had Been Growing in My Son

I remembered the last few Mondays before that Sunday.

Tommy had become increasingly unhappy about returning to his mother's house.

He never gave me a complete explanation.

Sometimes he asked whether he could stay one more night.

Sometimes he simply became quiet.

I had tried to comfort him.

I had told him that both parents loved him.

I had explained that the arrangement wasn't something he needed to worry about.

I thought I was helping.

But now I wondered whether those words had made him feel that he needed to hide his real feelings.

I hadn't wanted him to feel caught between us.

I hadn't wanted him to believe he had to choose.

Yet I had been so focused on keeping the peace that I hadn't fully understood what he was trying to tell me.

I leaned against the wall.

The hospital lights were bright.

My eyes felt tired.

I thought about the psychologist I had spoken with.

I thought about the school conversations.

I thought about Lauren's repeated accusations.

Every time I raised a concern, the discussion seemed to return to the divorce.

I was bitter.

I was interfering.

I was making Tommy confused.

Perhaps I had allowed those accusations to become louder than my own observations.

I couldn't change that now.

But I could refuse to ignore what was happening.

A door opened.

I looked up immediately.

It wasn't the examination room.

I sat back down.

I thought about Tommy's words.

Mom gets angry when I say things.

I had heard that sentence before.

At the time, I hadn't known how to respond.

I didn't want to question him too aggressively.

I didn't want to put words into his mouth.

But I should have understood that his fear deserved serious attention.

Now I knew that listening meant more than asking questions.

It meant taking action when a child showed signs of being in danger.

I had finally done that.

I hoped Tommy would understand it someday.

I hoped he would remember that when he couldn't explain his pain, I still believed him.

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